She has worked and been single for as long as I can remember and has never complained. I don't recall her having a long-term boyfriend or dating much. On my 21st birthday mom texted me "Mike, make sure you come straight home from work I have a surprise for your birthday. When I got home, mom had a cake for me which she has done for the past 21 years. Then she told me about her big birthday surprise They are performing at the casino and thought we could spend the weekend there to celebrate your birthday!